How to navigate cultural differences: 9 tips

Cultural exchange is a huge part of foreign language learning. Language is so connected to culture that, to become fluent, it’s essential to learn about the culture too. Immersing yourself in a place's customs and conventions while learning allows you to pick up slang, understand linguistic nuances, and embrace cultural differences. Plus, it enriches your experience and, simply, can be a lot of fun.

Cultural differences can include different belief systems, ways of dressing, values, and the consumption (or not) of certain foods. Before you’re familiar with a new culture, it can be easy to get things wrong, and sometimes a faux pas can accidentally cause offence. Here are some of our top tips for navigating cultural differences to help build understanding.

1. Start simple

Bridging the cultural divide often begins with learning the common and respectful ways that members of a culture greet and thank each other. Making this the top of your list shows your willingness to learn, and a desire to be polite, and can get your interaction with new people off to a good start.

2. Then, learn the language

Learning someone’s language takes time and effort, and shows that you value their customs and culture. You don’t need to be fluent to start chatting with people in their local tongue, and they’ll likely be pleased that you’re trying — great for bridging the cultural divide. The benefits abound; conversation with native speakers is fantastic for strengthening your language skills, and you’ll get a deeper appreciation for your cultural differences as you learn.

3. Be flexible

Good intention is key. You might not get it right every time, but it’s important to try (and show that you’re trying)! Remember to try new things, learn with an open heart, and be willing to adapt. Some new cultural practices might feel unusual at first, but they can deepen your learning and personal growth when you embrace them.

4. Try local dishes

Flexibility helps when embracing local cuisine, too. Food is a pillar of culture; traditional dishes are passed down through generations just like art, stories, and language. Sample the region’s specialties and be open to new flavors and culinary styles — some may take you a few tries to appreciate. Even if you’re not a fan or at first dishes seem unappealing, be polite and try not to make your feelings obvious to avoid offending your hosts or new friends.

5. Get advice

When trying to fit in, you can cause upset if you don’t do your research — even if you mean well. It’s key to be mindful of when your actions might (even unintentionally) feel like cultural appropriation. Before you travel, the internet is your advisor; get a basic understanding of the culture you’ll be immersing yourself in, and learn the common cultural mistakes other travelers make. When you arrive, observe and be curious. If you’re unsure about something, ask your classmates, teachers, or host families.

6. Be interested

It’s easy to spot when someone is not interested in what you’re saying. So, when you’re speaking to someone about their culture, ensure you’re present in that conversation. Listen actively, and ask detailed and insightful questions to show that you’re motivated to understand their culture on a deeper level. If they feel valued, they will be more likely to trust you, open up, and help you understand cultural differences. You’ll learn far more this way too.

7. Pay attention

Look at body language for non-verbal cues. These can take a while to spot, as every culture has different shared mannerisms and expressions. Some cultures, for example in Asia, are not as facially expressive as ones in North or Latin America. And, while eye contact implies attentiveness and politeness in many Western cultures, in some Eastern cultures like Japan, too much eye contact can be disrespectful.

8. Embrace popular culture

Get to know popular art that comes from, or celebrates that culture — it’ll help you become familiar with the language and cultural values. Read books or watch TV shows from where you’re going; K-dramas are popular with Korean language learners, and Manga is a beloved style of graphic novel in Japan. This could also give you a shared interest with the people that you meet, helping to build friendships.

9. Look inwards

Reflect on your own culture; your family dynamics, community structures, respect signals, abbreviations, spirituality, and punctuality. This can help in many ways — from strengthening your connection with your roots and boosting your empathy to inspiring you to appreciate the cultural differences and seek new ones to explore too.